Playing Straight
We've all heard the horror stories of people using fake pictures
on dating sites, sometimes "Catfishing" for attention, though more
typically attempting to misrepresent themselves while expecting their
date to ignore the blatant deception.
Guys are attracted to pretty and healthy shaped women, so girls take
pictures from specific angles to appear their best, and use pictures
from their most attractive years. Guys get some traction with interesting
or attractive photos, and even more if their profile says they are tall or
wealthy.
If a guy meets a girl and she's not as attractive as her pictures, most
guys will bail. Rightly so! When a guy claims to be tall and is not,
or wealthy but isn't up for putting out money for the implied promise
of getting laid, the girl will feel deceived and clamp her legs shut.
The whole situation turns from an eager meeting with hot anticipation
of sex to negative feelings of deception, with neither person getting
lucky. It's all better avoided by not lying, and instead just playing
it straight by presenting the best version of you,
which is a recent picture of how you are at your peak, and available
for demonstration at your date.
If you think you must lie, make it minor and undiscoverable, like adding
an inch to your height or 10% to your income. Still, it's better to avoid
lies entirely, simplifying your whole life by not having to remember a
single falsehood.
It makes you bolder and more laid back to effortlessly and unhesitatingly
speak the truth all the time, neither of which obviously comes through
in your profile, but both of which are very attractive in person. You'll
also have real conversation about what you really want.
She'll also build quicker trust with you, so if you're looking for more
than a one time fling, you'll establish good footing for a relationship.
Play your cards straight and you might win everything wonderful
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